Haters gonna hate I knew that sooner or later it would happen: I expected criticism and negative comments.
I know my limits: I'm fat and I know that for many people this is something aesthetically unappealing, I also know that sometimes exaggerate the choice of certain equipment or clothing that is not appropriate for someone of my tonnage / of my age. So, posting my photos on a blog, I knew that I raised a few negative comments.
I think I'm prepared, but apparently I underestimated the viciousness of some people.
Last week I had a crazy boom of visits, type 50 to 900 in one day, it seemed to me quite strange ... and in fact I found a nice person had posted in my photos, with lots of links, in a group on facebook where the favorite pastime is to write about fashion blog malice and wickedness. And what makes me laugh because my little pretty much central to the concept of fashion as it is generally understood. Here I talk about what I like in clothes and related topics. I do not the rest of the world.
I'd say it does not give a damn, who are older who have nothing to be ashamed, I like the way I dress despite what was written, but not anymore, unfortunately.
My self-esteem does not reach levels so high that we do not even batting an eyelid, if their goal was to make me feel like shit, annoys me a lot to admit that we are fully successful.
And I think that this is the thing that makes me angry, and the fact that no one has had the courage (and decency) to leave me a comment on the blog, tell me what was wrong in a constructive way in outfits that have been publicly ridiculed , who have felt compelled to take the piss behind me.
Yeah, so easy!
I'd like to say that my first thought was "No, I shut down the blog, so who am I doing this is to be insulted like this?" and he immediately thought of the next post ... but notice the way I prevaricated to publish photo the last outfit I had to admit my defeat.
I thought I'd let a little time, but the visits are still mysterious, and my request to remove the photo was not taken into account in any way, then there will always be someone from that page that passes through here just to have another material to insult me.
do not know what I will do, if you post more outfits or if you speak more generally about what I like, but do not want to close it. At least not for now.
And if someone should pass that famous group on facebook, I have some advice to give:
sucks you see a fat lady? Close this page and go elsewhere!
are unwatchable? Close this page and go elsewhere!
not you like how I dress? Close this page and go elsewhere! You think it's a
giappominkia? Close this page and go elsewhere!
You have nothing to do but spit shit on others to feel better? Close this page and look in the mirror!
I Knew That It Would Happen Sooner or Later: Some negative comments I expected.
I know my limits: I'm fat and I know That For many people this is unappealing to see something, I Also Know That Sometimes I exaggerate or wear clothing with accessories not really appropriate for someone of my weight / of my age. So I knew That my photos on a blog posting Probably Would Have raised a few negative comments.
I thought I was prepared, but apparently I underestimated the wickedness of some people.
Last week I had a crazy boom of visits, like 50 to 900 in one day, it seemed quite strange ... and I found that a person had posted some photos of mine, with links too, in facebook page where the favorite pastime is to write about fashion blog with malice and wickedness. And what makes me laugh is that my blog is not related to faschion as it's generally sensed. Here I talk about what I like in clothes and related topics. What likes to ME, not to the rest of the world.
I'd like to say that I don't give a damn, that I have nothing to be ashamed, that I like the way I dress despite what they wrote, but it's no more like this, unfortunately.
My self-esteem isn't so big that I don't care of what they say, if their aim was to make me feel like shit, it annoys me a lot to admit they are fully successful. And this is the thing that makes me more angry, along with the fact that no one has had the courage (and decency) to leave me a comment here on the blog, to tell me what was wrong in a constructive way with the outfits that have been publicly ridiculed behind my shoulders. Yeah, so easy!
I'd like to say that my first thought hasn't been "Enough, I will shut down the blog, I'm not doing this to be insulted!" and I immediately thought of what to write in the next post ... but I noticed the way I keep not publishing the photos of my last outfit, and I had to admit my defeat.
I thought I'd let pass some time, but there are still some mysterious visits, and my request to remove the photoS was not taken into account in any way, so there will always be someone from that page that passes here just to have more material to insult me.
I don't know that I will do, if I'll keep posting my outfits or if I'll just speak more generally about what I like, but I don't want to close the blog. At least not for now.
And if someone from that famous facebook group will pass by here, I have some advice to give:
Don't you like seeing fat people? Close this page and go elsewhere!
Am I unwatchable? Close this page and go elsewhere!
Don't you like how I dress? Close this page and go elsewhere!
Do you think I'ma Japan-related-idiot? Close this page and go elsewhere!
Don't you have anything better to do that to throw shit on others to feel better? Close this page and look at the mirror!
